Find peace at the intersection of faith and identity
Common
Sanctuary
We create a safe and affirming space for LGBTQ+ people exploring the intersection of spirituality and sexuality.
We believe your whole self is sacred.
Contemplative Spirituality
Explore contemplative practices that invite presence, deepen trust in your inner life, and make space for healing. From spiritual direction to groups and retreats, discover a spacious, queer-affirming approach to faith.
Mixed-Orientation Marriage Support
Support for people navigating mixed-orientation marriages, grounded in lived experience, deep listening, and compassion. A space where complexity is named and no one has to pretend.
Education and Advocacy
We offer teaching, workshops, and public witness that help churches and communities become more inclusive, honest, and human—grounded in lived experience and real stories.
Stories of Sanctuary
The Common Sanctuary sessions and one-on-one calls with Matt were life-giving for me as I continue my journey of acceptance while staying in a mixed-orientation marriage. They created space for real friendships where I could process, learn, and feel supported and known. This journey is not easy, but I can breathe more now and move forward with greater peace.
As I’ve moved and traveled between three countries over the past few years, all while trying to figure out my evolving faith, the LGBTQ+ Contemplative Spirituality group has given me a home, a sense of community, and lifelong friends.
For several years, Matt has served as my spiritual director, accompanying me with deep listening and discerning questions. His presence and guidance have shaped some of the most significant spiritual growth and insight of my life.
Common Sanctuary’s online groups provided a spiritual safe space for me immediately after coming out as bisexual and losing connection with my childhood church. It was an absolute lifeline during a tumultuous time, and I’m still connected to friends I made there years later.
Upcoming Events
The Many in Concert
March 7 at The Quest, Novato
Common Sanctuary welcomes The Many for an evening of music shaped by faith, queer experience, and a longing for justice and belonging. This concert is a chance to gather, listen deeply, and be reminded that we are not alone.
